Matthew was in a serious auto accident Monday morning, April 14th while travelling to a job site in Arcadia, OK. The accident occurred about 3 miles south of Wellston in Lincoln County on Highway 177. The family will use this blog to keep you all posted on his condition.
Here are some news reports on the accident:
http://www.news9.com/global/story.asp?s=8163874
Clarification - Matthew was not pinned in the vehicle, Jimmy Clagg was... Matthew was lying in passenger side floorboard when first responders arrived
http://www.news-star.com/stories/041508/tri_60200.shtml
Clarification - Matthew did not have internal/external trunk or arm injuries
Thanks so much for all the phone calls, gift baskets, and most importantly thanks for your prayers.
We'd also like to pass along our condolences to Jimmy Clagg's family. We are praying for you all too.
Monday, April 14th
Matthew was flown to OU Medical Trauma Center in Oklahoma City Monday morning with severe head trauma. The Trauma Team attempted to put a drain to relieve fluid from his brain but were not able to do so because the fluid spaces were too small. They inserted an intracranial pressure monitor to measure the pressure inside the skull. He was moved to Trauma ICU early afternoon, where the ICU staff and various teams of doctors have been monitoring his condition. The doctors explained that the first 72 hours would be critical and that maximum swelling of the brain would not occur until then. The brain injury was described as extremely serious. Using the Glascow Coma Scale to measure Traumatic Brain Injuries, Matthew was rated a 4 which is severe. Matthew has several things in his favor - he's young and strong and aside from the head trauma there were no other major injuries.
The Neuro-Surgeons visited with us and explained that they wanted to keep Intracranial Pressure (ICP) at or below a 20. Since they could not insert the drain, the only way to do this is to give him the drug Mannitol. Aside from this they did not feel there was anything more they could do. They are keeping Matthew in a general anesthetic coma to minimize brain activity while his brain recovers from the trauma.
Tuesday, April 15th

Matthew made it through the night with several treatments of Mannitol. His ICP level hovered between 15 and 25 most of the night. A 2nd CAT scan in the morning revealed no additional swelling. Great news! The doctors had expected to see more.
Doctors informed Kimberly and Patton that Matthew had a minor fracture in his neck. However this was not documented in his file and we later found out this was not the case.
Late in the afternoon, Matthew's heart rate begin to fall as his heart was struggling to handle the higher blood pressure. It fell so low (around 40) that they brought in the crash cart in case it was needed. Additional medication was given to him and he responded well. His heart rate increased to above 60 and was steady the rest of the day.
Later in the night, Matthew's Oxygen level in his blood began to fall and the ICP climbed. His O2 level had been between 98 and 100 (100 is as good as it can be). It continued to fall through the night into the low 90's which is very serious. The doctors increased the respirator to 100% Oxygen and made some adjustments to how the Oxygen was pumped during the cycle, which helped some but not enough. The doctors felt they would have to try again to insert the drain tube to reduce the pressure in the brain.
Wednesday, April 16th
A chest X-Ray was given that revealed some "junk" in Matthew's lower right lung. So later in the morning they took Matthew in for an endoscopic procedure to clean out his lung. Matthew responded very well to the procedure and his O2 levels began to climb immediately.
Within an hour after completing the lung procedure, the Neuro-Surgeons decided Matthew's ICP level was still too high (upper 20's to 30's) so they took him back into surgery to re-attempt the drain tube. This time the surgeons were able to insert the tube. The tube allowed a mixture of spinal fluid and blood to drain from Matthew's brain and the ICP's fell to below 20 for several hours.
Later in the evening, the drain became blocked and was no longer working. ICP levels increased slightly to mid to upper 20's.
Oxygen level remains at 99 to 100 which is excellent. Matthew is fighting hard!!
Thursday, April 17th

The Neuro-Surgeons decided to reposition the drain. If this procedure does not work, they feel the only other option will be to put Matthew in a barbiturate-induced coma. The report was good as we expected. The repositioning of the tube has worked and a significant amount of fluid was drained, and the ICP level dropped to a more acceptable level.
A little before 3PM there was some concern because Matthew's pupils were dilated to a 7. However his ICP levels and O2 levels remained pretty good. We were told they were going to take him for another CT Scan to see what was going on. Dr. Martin came in to tell us around 4PM that after further consultation with Dr. Mapstone they decided not to move him for the CT Scan because the risk of moving him was not worth it as long as the pressure remained at a reasonable level. He said that in the meantime his left pupil returned to a normal (2) and the right side had shrunk some but not completely. So they are going to continue to keep a close watch on him and wait.
5:30PM - Both pupils returned to normal. ICP levels had gone down to below 15 but in the last half hour have gone back up to about 30. Gave him another dose of Mannitol and pressure started going back down. The drain is still working.
Every evening between 6:30PM and 8PM is shift change and no visitors are allowed in ICU unless it is urgent. Same drill each morning between 6:30AM and 8AM. We should have another update after 8PM.
8:30PM ICP is still good, ranging between 10 and 25. Oxygen levels are still good around 97 with 50% O2 on respirator.9:30PM Pressure was going up around 35 so they gave him another dose of Mannitol. His ICP level began to go back down again.
11PM ICP is in single digits and has been holding there for about an hour now. His O2 level is 99 to 100, heart rate good. Pupils are reacting well. Everything looks great right now. Keep the prayers coming!!Friday, April 18th
Throughout most of the night Matthew's ICP level remained in the single digits. However this morning the pressure has gone up and doctor's are currently discussing his status and what the next steps are. As soon as we get an official report I will update again. Keep praying!!
1:30PM ICP levels have fluctuated between 8 and 24, currently back down to 8. It's been over 5 hours since last dose of Mannitol or any type of medication to reduce the pressure.
5PM ICP levels had stayed around 20 to 23 for a while without going back down. The Doctors had ordered another dose of Mannitol but just as the RN went to administer it, his ICP dropped to 8 again and remained there so they decided to wait and watch it longer.
6:30PM It had been just over 9 hours now since his last dose, which is very encouraging. At 5:40PM the doctors decided to go ahead and give him another dose of Mannitol because his ICP levels were fluctuating between 8 and 26. All his other vitals are very good - they have him on 40% O2 now and his Oxygen levels in the blood are still 99 to 100. It definitely looks like he's turning the corner today.
8:15PM Pressure had risen to a 30 so they gave him another dose of Mannitol, the 2nd time in a little over 2 hours. It has started to come back down and was at a 14 just a few minutes ago. The RN explained that this is typical for days 3 through 5 for injuries like this.
9:30PM ICP is staying low, between 9 and 15. Heart rate is up to just over 100, but the RN said that was good. They gave Matthew a 5 minute vibration treatment. The bed vibrates providing blows between his shoulder blades to help loosen up any phlegm from his lungs since he cannot cough. The RN said they tried this procedure last night but Matthew wouldn't tolerate it - his pressure went up so they stopped. Tonight he not only tolerated it, the RN said he seemed to like it. The tube is working well too, fluid continues to drain at a steady rate. Not only are his numbers improving, but Matthew's color is looking much better. Everyone comments on how much better he's looking today.
10:30PM Gave him a 2nd vibration treatment around 10PM. This time however it caused the ICP level to go up to 33, so they stopped the vibration and gave him another does of Mannitol. Within 5 minutes the pressure went back down below 20.
11:30PM He's holding steady with ICP numbers between 10 and 16. We'll have another update first thing tomorrow.
Saturday, April 19th
Overnight Matthew continued the pattern of his ICP levels going up to near 30, requiring another dose of Mannitol to bring it back down below 20. Around 3AM the doctors decided they could not give him anymore Mannitol without drying out his tissues. They will put Matthew in a barbituate induced coma using pentobarbital. This is a deeper level of coma than the previous general anesthetic coma they had him in, further reducing brain activity. They plan to keep him in this state for about a week to allow his body to deal with the brain trauma. So while it means it will be longer before he can wake up and they can diagnose the severity of his injury, it should help to keep the pressure low without giving him any other drugs for the pressure.
12PM The pentobarbital has helped. They started him on it around 5:30AM and it has lowered his ICP level to below 15. Right now he's down around 10 to 12 pretty steady. Everything else is still good.
3PM Still doing well. His ICP level rose above 20 for a brief period but has been below 10 for the last 2 hours
9PM Not much change all day, which is great. His ICP levels have been single digits and teens most of the afternoon and evening. There were a few brief periods where it rose into the 20's but it came back down fairly quickly.
Sunday, April 20th
Matthew had a pretty good night. His ICP level stayed in the single digits or near zero all night. He started running a fever again last night. They've drawn some spinal fluid from the drain and are testing it to see if there is an infection. It will take a couple of days to grow the culture to identify what the infection might be. His temperature is under control and right now is below normal, so it doesn't appear to be anything too serious, just taking precautions to make sure they stay ahead of anything that might develop.
We don't expect a lot of change today or throughout the week. If anything changes, we'll post it as soon as we have good info.
Monday, April 21st
It's been 1 week now since the accident and Matthew is still fighting. We believe he has made it through the toughest part and that he will pull through this, but we understand he's got a long way to go. Please keep praying and keep posting messages to the family. My laptop is there in the ICU waiting room for the family to use so they can read the blog. Your messages of encouragement mean a lot to us all. Thank you so much and keep praying for Matthew and his family.
Matthew had another good night and morning with low ICP levels and his temperature is good. He had some low potassium levels this morning but they've corrected that already. This morning they turned him on his side for a while to prevent bed sores. His ICP went up to about 17 but afterwards came back down to around 10. They'll continue to do this every few hours as long as he handles it well.
10PM Matthew's been holding steady all day. His ICP levels remain around 10 or below, all other numbers are good. They've been doing vibration treatments regularly. His lungs are clear and they aren't getting any phlegm from his airways, so it looks like the possible pneumonia has not progressed as the doctors feared. His body temperature has remained at or below normal since Saturday night, and so far the spinal fluid sample has not grown a culture - so it appears the fever was not due to any infection.
Sidenote: Kimberly spoke with a Wellston rescue worker named Charles who was one of the First Responders that pulled Matthew from the wreckage. He told Kimberly that Matthew was found in the passenger floor board on his left side with his head laying on the seat. He feels that if Matthew had landed in any other position he would have not been able to breathe until they arrived. He also said that Matthew was definitely responding to pain and tensing up as they worked on him, but that when they gave him verbal instructions and comforted him using his name, Matthew would relax. Those are all good signs.
Charles also shared that his unit had been dispatched just prior to Matthew's accident to another incident. It was reported that a car had wrecked in the ditch and was on fire. Turns out it was just a car with an overheated radiator and no one was there. Because of this, it took the rescue team less than five minutes to arrive on scene after the 911 call was received. Even if it only trimmed a minute or two from their arrival time, we believe God orchestrated this to help keep Matthew alive.
We owe a lot to Charles and his crew at the Wellston Fire Department, the 911 dispatchers, and all of the emergency personnel, flight crew, nurses, and doctors that have played a part in Matthew's survival. Thanks are not enough for the work you all do. Charles - if you read this, please post a message with the names of everyone in your department that worked this incident.
Tuesday, April 22nd
Matthew had a good night with no fluctuations in ICP, respiration, or fever. The Neuro-Surgeon team reviewed him this morning and have decided to start easing him off of the pentobarbital. They had told us it would be a week before they did this, so this is very encouraging. The Trauma team still has to approve the recommendation. So we'll find out more in the next hour or so.
10:30AM The Trauma team agreed with the Neuro-Surgeon team's recommendation. They've begun to lower the pentobarbital dosage and will monitor him closely as his brain activity increases. After he's off the pentobarbital completely, they'll see how he's doing and if everything looks good they'll start reducing the other sedatives as well. We aren't sure yet how long of a process this will be, it could take a couple of days.
12PM He is completely off the pentobarbital - took less than 2 hours to back him off. However it won't be completely out of his system for several more hours. So far his ICP is holding steady around 10. They plan to keep him on the other sedatives until tomorrow. We'll give more updates as the day progresses.
2PM Everything is still looking good. His ICP levels remain between 10 and 15. His temperature is slightly above normal but nothing to worry about at this point.
9PM Around 5:30PM Matthew's ICP levels began to climb a little and ranged between 17 and 20. After shift change, he was still in the lower twenties and got as high as 25, but then it began to go back down and has stayed between 15 and 18 for the past 30 to 45 minutes. Let's pray it continues to stabilize and remains below 20 all night.
Wednesday, April 23rd
Matthew's ICP levels have remained below 20 most of the night and are currently around 17. He had some minor seizures overnight which is common as the pentobarbital wears off. They gave him Dilantin, an anti-epileptic drug used to control seizures. They also took him off the general sedatives for about 2 hours to see if they could get a neuro exam, but the pentobarbital was still in his system so they didn't get anything. He's back on the sedatives and we are waiting word on the game plan for today.
11AM Matthew's ICP levels have gone up again and he's having some respiratory problems. They had gone up above 40 but are currently back down to 19. The doctors had decided to put him back on pentobarbital and perform a bronchoscopy to clean out his right lung again and see if there is an infection. But since his pressure has come back down, they are going to confirm with the doctors again before administering the pentobarbital. Should have more info within the next 2 hours.
12:30PM The bronchoscopy went well, although they did not get much fluid from his lungs. They did get enough to do a culture to test for infection. Right now his Oxygen levels are good and because his ICP levels have remained below 20, they have NOT put him back on the pentobarbital. Going to continue to monitor him and hope his pressure doesn't go up again.
3PM Not much has changed, continuing to monitor.
6:30PM Matthew's ICP level has gone up in the last hour to mid 20's and his fever is up to about 102. However, since they have been repositioning him and putting in a new IV line, they are going to wait a while and see if his numbers go back down before resorting to any medication or putting him back on pentobarbital.
8PM We were told by the RN that they had standing orders from the doctors to put Matthew back on pentobarbital if his ICP remained at or above 20 for a period of 15 to 20 minutes. While his ICP level has risen to the mid-20's off and on, they have not remained there very long so they haven't had to do anything other than try to keep his temperature down. The RN also explained that the fever may not be due to any infection but rather the inability of Matthew's hypothalamus to control his body temperature because of the trauma to the brain. If they cannot control his body temperature using cool packs and tylenol, they may resort to a cooling blanket.
10PM Up until about 9PM his ICP levels kept going up into the mid-20's and his temperature remained up around 102.2, and we were getting close to the 15-20 minute limit. Then his temperature began to drop to about 101 and the ICP level dropped below 20 again, all the way down into the single digits. It seemed to level off around 12 to 14 and has remained between 10 and 15 for the past 45 minutes. His respiration is good and his lungs seem to be clear. Blood pressure and heart rate are excellent. We just need him to hold steady through the night and have a better day tomorrow than today. Everyone is remaining positive and patient, every day brings new challenges but Matthew has handled everything that's been thrown at him.
Thursday, April 24th
Matthew had a really good night. His ICP level stayed low throughout the night and his fever has come down. The Neuro-Surgeon team has decided to clamp the drain tube and see how he handles that, then begin backing him off of the sedatives throughout the day.
4PM Still waiting before they start backing him off the sedatives. His fever has come back up a little so it may be tomorrow before they do anything different.
Friday, April 25th
Matthew had another good night. They have not taken him off the sedatives at this point, but he continues to do really well with his pressure and his temperature has gone down and remained normal since yesterday afternoon. The sample they took from his lung on Wednesday has grown a culture so they are giving him a 2nd antibiotic to fight off infection. We're still waiting for confirmation on whether they will begin backing him off the sedatives today or give him more time in his current state.
9:30PM Nothing really has changed today. ICP and temp is good. We'll see what the doctors say in the morning.
Saturday, April 26th
Matthew's ICP levels have remained low and respiration is good. The doctors decided this morning to start backing him off of the sedatives, a process that will take a day or two. His fever came back up overnight and they are concerned that he may have a bacterial infection of the colon called Clostridium Difficile (aka CDF or C-Diff). In order to treat this, they have to stop the previous antibiotics they were giving him and give him something else specifically for this. As a precaution, we now have to wear gown, gloves, and a mask when we visit his room. We hope to have confirmation of this later today.
Sunday, April 27th
The C-Diff test came back negative and his temperature has been pretty good. They have backed him off 75% of the sedatives and will take him off the remaining 25% either today or tomorrow morning. Matthew is beginning to show more signs of activity, such as responding to pain and touch, coughing, and his eyelids moving. It still may be a day or two before he gets all of the sedatives out of his system since he has been on them for 2 weeks.
NOTE: For most recent updates, go to the top of this page and see the new post. I started a new post on Monday, April 28th to make it easier to find the latest info without having to scroll through the entire page. If you wish to post comments you may do so there as well.
180 comments:
THis is Tammy
we are praying daily
appreciate the updates
you guys take care of yourself, Kimberly and Marlichia
we love you all!
Just want you to know our thoughts and prayers are with Matthew.This blog will be nice keeping us updated Pat you and Charlotte take care of yourselves.I'll be thinking of you,love Sheila
Just want you to know you all continue to be in our prayers and we are believing God to perform a miracle on Matthew's behalf.
Mark 9:23 All things are possibe to them that believe.
Please let the family know that Pastor Keith Williams and Cathy are believing God with you tonight, that the tube will continue to drain, and that you will continue to see improvements.
In our thoughts!
Just want you all to know we are praying & believing That God will bring Matthew thru this in full recovery , if u need anything just call anytime day or nite , I love u all & we are all praying in one accord Hoss
It sounds like Matthew is quite the fighter!! I am praying for him to keep up the good fight, and I'm praying for his entire family to feel God's loving arms wrapped around all of you for comfort through this tough time!! Hang in there!! Love you all! Kelly Otis
Just wanted you to know that Mattew and your whole family are in our prayers. We'll continue to pray for his recovery. Glad to see he's such a figher!
Matt and Shelly
Thank you Jeff for this blog! It is very helpful to us that can't be there. There are SO many people praying for Matthew! God is in control and i know he is taking care of him. I am standing firm in prayer for a miracle in Matthew's life! Matthew is a fighter for sure and I know in Christ ALL things are possible! I also pray for peace and comfort for all of you! I love you all!
Proverbs 3:5, Trust in the Lord with ALL your hear, Lean not unto your understanding.
Your in my prayers!
We are so sorry we can't be there. But Matthew and all of you are in our prayers. I agree with others, Matthew is a fighter. We love you all, and please know that we are praying for you constantly. God made that body, and he CAN heal it just as well. Nothing is impossible for God. Just stand on his word !! I love you!!! Aunt Judy
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Tony and Cindy Buchanan
We love you guys... and are praying for you all. Matthew is so strong! And very loved! Thanks for the blog... the updates are great!
Thanks for the update. We will continue to keep all of you in our prayers. You are on the prayer list at the First United Methodist Church in Antlers.
Jenny Beth Caraway
I agree with everyone Matthew is a fighter and very strong he always has been. We are thinking of you all and thanks for this blog it is great for those of us who can't be there. We Love You Guys! and Matthew!
Willie, Rayna and Hunter Noah
Me, Jacobi, Jesse and Jeremy are praying for you!! Expect to get a good old fashioned butt whippin from your brother Jacobi when ya'll get out!!! God be with you and your family!! Love your other Mother! Donnie
Ashley
Tell all my prayers are with them,God will Bless you all.
Kimberly tell Matthew I'm praying and love him. GOD BLESS YA'LL
I am praying for you and your family. Jace I love ya, hang in there!!!
Love,
The Lunch Lady
Thanks for the info. We will be praying for Matthew and family.
Fonette
Thank you all for the messages of encouragement!! Everyone here really looks forward to reading them. Keep em coming.
We are praying believing that God's healing hand will be on Matthew, take comfort in his love. The Chancellor's
Jim, Deanna and JD
We are praying for Matthew and all of his family: for healing, peace, comfort and strength. Thank you for the updates. Blessings to each of you.
Dawn Dillard, Fairview, TX
hi, im jami, courtney's cousin, and i am told i am kin to you guys somehow, my maiden name is byrum, i am praying so hard for matthew, and have asked everyone on my friends list to be praying as well.
Our hearts and prayers are with you guys. God is awesome and gracious, trust in him, draw near to him, He has matthew in his hands I just know it. There are so many prayers going up, only good news can come from that. We all are bombarding heavens gates with prayers, so I have complete confidence and trust in our Father God that Matthew is coming out of this and will be fine. God Bless you all. The Townleys, John, Tonya, & James
Matthew you are strong and you are going to pull through this. I love you Matthew and I love you too Kimberly. They wont let me call, but be strong for me.
Love you,
Your Brother Jacobi
Thank you all so much for your prayers and encouragement.
Ephesians 3:13-21
"Therefore I ask that you do not lose heart for my tribulations for you, which is your glory.
For this reason I bow my knees to the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, from whom the whole family in heaven and earth is named, that he would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, to be strenghthened with might through His Spirit in the inner man, that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the width and length and height -- that you may know the love of Christ which passes knowledge; that you may be filled with all the fullness of God. Now to Him that is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, to Him be glory..."
We are praying for Matthew and your entire family. In times like these it makes one appreciate our families. Kimberly, keep the faith. I am thinking of you.
Kay and Joseph Russell
I am glad to see that his levels are staying pretty good today!! It is very comforting to see how everyone is responding in prayer, that is what it takes!! Matthew is very loved not only by all of us but most importantly by our Heavenly Father! A friend of mine who is 22 was in a terrible accident a year ago and they almost lost him. He later told us that God was with him during that time. He said that when he was in the ambulence God laid beside him and wrapped his arms around him as he assured him that he loved him and everything was going to be ok! He did loose his leg from that accident, but he gained so much life!!! He is now serving God and his testimony has touched many peoples lives! I shared this because I believe that Matthew is experiencing that same love during this time and whatever the outcome may be, lives are being touched! Praise God for his love and mercy!! Love and Prayers, Courtney
We hold you all in our thoughts and prayers. Thank you for the updates.
Kimberly and Family,
Just want you to know my thoughts and prayers are with Matthew. I know God will take care of you. The Department also has you in their prayers. We love You
Sheryl Hutson
I am always praying for you guys and Matthew. God said that "when you saw only one pair of foot prints that is when I carried you." He is watching over Matthew. We have to leave it up to God. We are here for everyone. He is in our thoughts and prayers.
Brittany and Hesston
Landon and I pray each night that Matthew improves with time. We will continue to do so as he journeys through these tough times. Our prayers are with all of you. Get well soon Matthew!
Our prayers are with you all. I emailed everyone I know and called everyone to put you on prayer lists. We are firm believers in miracles, because we received one. Trust in God and keep faith that he can and will bless and heal.
It is so great to be able to follow along with Matthew's improving condition. God has got something very special planned just for Matthew. Our prayers are with you all.
Monty & Kay Hamman
Keep up the fight Matthew! I check his progress several times a day. if there is anything you guys need just let me know I am here for you all. Thanks Jeff for keeping us posted it really helps. Matthew is a fighter we all know that.
We just want you all to know that our prayers are with you and Matthew.
kids at school and I are very interested and concerned about how Matthew is doing.....and how Jace and Gary and all are holding up, so thanks to you who have developed this site to keep us informed and give us chance to support the family, we check in regularly.......
prayers n luv, Kirkes
Hey Matthew! We wanted to let you know we are praying for you and can't wait to see you on the baseball field again. We drive by there going home everyday, and used to see you out there goofing off and have fun! Be strong, and keep fighting. Kim, Marlichia, Jace, Michelle...you guy's hang in there as well. We will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless!
ps Jacobi says he loves you Kimberly. And he says "Matthew you are strong and I love you brother!"
We are remembering Matthew and the entire family each day, many times a day, in thoughts and prayers for continued healing and that God will allow a true miracle to happen in Matthew's life. He is strong, young and a fighter.....he has come a long way since the accident and continues to show improvement, even if little bits at a time, which is so encouraging. Between his Dr's, God, his family and friends, I believe Matthew has a great chance of pulling through this horrible ordeal that he has gone through. May the family have some peace and comfort knowing that he is in great hands. Love you all!
Becky Howell
We keep you in our Prayers and I can tell you that God is holding your family now and will bring glorius things through all the trials we face.
your alway in our thought
Dana, Mike,& Kids
Still believing God for nothing less than a miracle. Our church will definately be praying for him tomorrow.
Standing in the gap for you!
Pastor Keith Williams, Cathy, Aaron & Joshua
Marlicha, Matthew and all the family I am praying for you and will continue praying until the miracle comes through.
Love Ima Sue Hamman
letting you guys know matthew is in our prayers, hang in there, god is to good, and he seems like a fighter.
Marki & Family
Just wanted to let the family know that I am praying continuously for Matthew and the doctor/nurses who are caring for him that they rely on God's strength and knowledge. God Bless you family and may the prayers that are said on your behalf give you strength in this trying time. Your Brother in Christ, Troy Elliott
Dear Matthew, and the Family of Matthew:
We have kept you in our prayers day and night. And continue to do so. We know from God's promise that he will never leave us nor forsake us. He has His hand on Matthew, and holds fast to his healing.
There is a poem that we would like to post for Matthew, it is called
"Footprints in the Sand" by Mary Stevenson:
One night I dreamed I was walking along the beach with the Lord. Many scenes from my life flashed across the sky. In each scene I noticed footprints in the sand. Sometimes there were two sets of footprints, other times there were one set of footprints. This bothered me because I noticed that during low periods of my life, when I was suffering from anguish, sorrow or defeat, I could only see one set of footprints. So I said to the Lord, "You promised me that if I follwed you, you would walk with me always. But I have noticed that during the most trying periods of my life there have been one set of footprints in the sand. Why, when I needed you most, you have not been there for me?"
The Lord replied. "The times when you have only seen one set of footprints in the sand is when I carried you."
We know that there is nothing too big or small for the Lord. Our prayers continue for Matthew's progress to continue.
Remember when you are tired and weak lean on the Lord and let Him carry you.
Thank You for Matthew's blog, so that we may keep up with his progress. If you ever need anything please let us know.
The Chad Fewell Family.
i'm praying for you guys. thank you for keeping us updated. i know you'll make it through cousin. i love you.
Dear family,
Our names are John,April, Maggie and Sarah McMorran. My niece is Leslie Ann Smith (dating Ryan~Matthews cousin). We have stayed very up to date with Matthews condition. I wanted you to know that you have several families in Little Rock, Arkansas sending up many prayers on Matthews behalf EVERY DAY! Isn't it wonderful to know that we serve a risen savior and that He sits at the right hand of God and asks for Matthews healing every day, too?! It comforts me to know that when the words can not form and we fall silent that He intercedes for us and goes to the Father with our needs and requests!
We just wanted you to know that the creator of the universe..the one who spun the galaxy into place and dotted our skies with beautiful stars.....holds Matthew in His hands...the same hands that created everything!!
We will check back daily to know how to pray.
Love and prayers,
April McMorran
Be strong Matthew and pull through. I know you can. All of our prayers are with you and your family.
This is Anna Emamghoraishi from Quail Springs Baptist Church. We are praying for Matthew's full recovery. This blog is great for keeping everyone up to date. We are praying for the whole family.
You are all in my prayers, as I know all too well our God is still in the Miracle Business. Please let any of us know if you need anything. Please take care of yourselves.
Helen
Kimberly,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I know Matthew is a special guy because of you. Thanks Jeff for the blog. Keep the faith!
Love,
Dea
Hey this is Tyler Hill and I'm sorry that i haven't put anything on here until now. I haven't had access to a computer. I just want "The Cagle" and "The Pugh" family's to know that me and my family are praying for Matthew and the families. We love ya'll so very much and this is a horrible tragedy but I know Matthew is a strong person he always has been and i know he will pull through this. Thank You Jeffery for putting this website up so people can find out day to day how Matthew is doing. Let Kimberley know that I love her like my own mother and that I'm especially praying for her. Jace I love you too man. Everyone take care and i will write back soon. Love Tyler, Brianna (my Fiancee), and Trinity Paige (my Daughter). MATTHEW WE LOVE YOU BUDDY!!!
I just want to shout out a praise as Im certain all have done, today is the 20th!! Its has been 6 days and Matthew is still with us, Praise God for grace and Praise God for prayer warriors!!
T Townley
"I can do all things through Christ which strengthens me" PHILIPPIANS 4:13 Hang in there guys take care of each other and know the prayer chain is strong from Oklahoma to Arkansas and you are in all our hearts and minds and he is improving each and every day its going to take time but thats ok because you all have faith and he is so lucky to have you all take care of each other and know we are all praying for you.
Hey everyone! Just letting you know I am still praying!!!! We had big prayer for Matthew and you guys at church this morning. God's plan is always wonderful, just keep trusting in him! I love you guys!
Courtney
Matthew, and Family,
We had Church today, at Fresh Beginnings, Ken Clagg stood in for Matthew as hands were laid upon him, the Holy Ghost began to intercede.
Matthew, I know that you are unable to read this right now, but sweetie, we are praying for your recovery.
With God all things are possible.
I see that there are so many others that believe this also.
God is an awesome God.
We prayed for comfort to you all his family as well. I cannot stress this enough, if you all ever need anything, please do not hesitate to call on us. We have some mighty prayer warriors. And you all are loved.
Peace and God's abundant love poured around you during this time of trial.
Chad Fewell and family
Hey everyone! We are just checking in again to see how Matthew is doing. Looks like everything is good right now. If any of you need anything just let us know and we will be glad to help. We plan on coming up there. Matthew was there for Jacobi every step of the way when he was in the hospital, and if Jacobi could right now he would be there in a heartbeat.
ps we love you to lexi and are thinking about you as well.
We are praying for Matthew & his family. He was put on our prayer list at church this morning. God is still in control and knows the tomorrows and what they hold. We don't need to understand, we just need to hold His hand. Get well soon Matthew - Courtney's Great-Aunt Doris
Hi, this is Jodi Campbell, I used to live in Clayton. I am Laura Rose's best friend. Marki was real good friends with Matthew when in school there. This is for Kimberly, "God said I will never leave you nor forsake you. I have everything in CONTROL. See MY work at hand, step back and see the miracle that I am preforming for your son so the whole world will know that I AM God, I am the miracle worker, see it come fort, give me the glory and see this miracle saith God." That is straight from the throne, fresh off the press. I love you guys I live here in the city if you need food, money or whatever let me know. For Matthew, you are strong willed, keep up the fight everyone is praying for you. There is power in prayer. My church is in the city also. It is Livingwaters Lighthouse, I have everyone praying there believing in a miracle. We call it done in Jesus name.
Your in our thoughts and prayers.
I want to thank everyone who has been praying for Matthew. I look at the comments several times a day and it helps to know that there are so many people who love my precious son. I just have to be patient and wait until God decides to let me see his beautiful blue eyes again. Thanks so much for everything everyone has done. Keep praying for us.
Kimberly
This is Ryan Battles. Just want you to know that Matthew is in our prayers.
Kimberly, this is Kay. I am checking the site several times a day. I am so thrilled to see the prayer chain that is occuring for Matthew. Ya know that these prayers are stored up and then poured out. Just keep the faith.
Call me if I can do anything for you.
love ya,
Kay & Joseph Russell
Since I first heard of Matthews wreck I began interceeding for him. I know that God is doing something special in his life right now. I am believing for nothing but complete healing in his life. From day to day as I would pray and then call to check in, I only expected to hear good reports and I did. I can tell you right now that God is the reason Matthew is still in that room, and Gods Glory will prevail. What Satan means for harm, God always gets glorified in turning it to good. Just the bond of hundreds of people around the area standing together believe for God to come on the scene and preform a miracle is putting Satan under our feet. He has no place here. It is the miracle that was striped across his back as they were about to kill Jesus. As He spoke "BY THESE STRIPES YE ARE HEALED". It is our responsiblity to stand in faith on his behalf and God will be glorified. Just as Jesus stood and calmed the seas, Stand and know he's with you saying, Peace Be Still, and see his work at hand, and know that he "IS".
Love and Prayers, Stacy, Dee, Britney, Ashleigh & Charles Fuller
There is a saying I have heard most of my life from my preacher dad, "What you can't control, you must commit." That is what MANY have done with you, Kimberly, and Matthew. As a mother, your heart is aching and worry has you overwhelmed. As for Matthew, it has been 6 days and prayers are going out all over, in many homes, in many churches, in many states. God is working and we pray he will work a miracle for Matthew. Allow God to be in control of the situation, your worry, the Dr.'s, and the future. Let others help you in any way needed so you will keep your strength up as well, Kimberly. Our Love and Prayers go out to Jace and Lexie. This is a time that they most likely are having a hard time understanding it all. May some peace and comfort be with them, as well. Know that our Heavenly Father is in the midst of Matthew and his family and believe that prayers are being heard. Cast all your cares on Him, for He careth for you.
Becky
Both Pughs and Cagles have always felt as close to me as family could since I can remember. Matthew is who he is, has the strength that he has, and is the fighter he has become because of the people in the corner of an ICU waiting room. I see more faith and resolve in your eyes than I've seen anywhere before. Kimberly, you'll always be special to us and our prayers are with you 24-7. Patton, you're my big cousin, blood for life. Whatever you need, it's done.
Bryce & Loralee Hamman
Hey just wanted to let you guys know. We are still with you in prayer, we love ya'll very much tell Kimberly and paton to hang tough which I know they are, tell Aunt Marlicha I HI. Love Ashley
Hey,
You guys hang in there, my prayers are with you always
You are all loved!
Tammy
Todd, Michelle and Melanie St. John send their prayers for the family from Frisco, TX and Prestonwood Baptist Church in Plano, TX.
Kimberly,
Stay strong as I know you can! Matthew knows you all are there for him. I believe that with everything. God is always with him and will protect him. We will keep praying for him and sending good thoughts your way.
Jeff,
Thank you from all of us out there who love Matthew, Kimberly and the whole family for keeping us updated.
Hey guys! I am glad to see that things are getting better. I will be up there sometime this week, if yall need me to bring anything call me,I will be more than happy to bring whatever!!! I pray for Matthew everyday and for you guys! Hes a strong guy and I know he will fight through this!!!! I love you all very much!!! I'll see you soon!!! xoxoxo
Love always and forever! Carly
Just looking for another update, our families, our hearts are there with you in spirit every step of the way. Kimberly I know you dont know me but you have been on my heart for a long time as I have shared with your precious mom,it just takes alittle faith to shake a big old moutain. Remember God's ways, His thoughts are not ours. We just have to trust that it's all His perfection, He loves us much more then we can ever imagine. Be of good cheer and know the Lord is with you. Keeping prayers rolling, Jan, Rick, Corinna, Tony, Haley and Samantha Hutchinson
Just wanted you guys to know that we are praying for you all. We have put Mathew on our prayer list at church....Prayer is POWERFUL!! Please let us know if there is anything else we can do...We love you all!!!!
Kristen "Battles" Johnson and family
Kimberly,
I just heard the news!! I am so sorry!! I will keep you in my prayers! God Bless!
Diane (Barnes) O'Neel
Just want you to know our thoughts and prayers are with Matthew. I agree with everyone Matthew is a fighter and very strong he always has been.
Jeannie Little, Andrea (Daugherty)Davidson & Family
This is David Watkins. Our hearts and prayers go out to you. Thanks for the blog to keep us in the loop.
Hello to all of you. Mom, Donnie and I (and the whole passle of kids) are praying for you constantly and want you to know that we have passed Matthew's name (and yours) along to every church, prayer chain and prayer warrior we can think of. God is still in the miracle business! Keep the faith and know that God will never take you where He won't see you through. All our love to all of you! Jeff, thanks for the blog. It has helped us to keep the church posted. What a ministry ,,,
Marlicia & Kimberly,
Please know that you are in all the prayers here at FirstBank. We are keeping up with the postings and with Dean's help at Shamrock. I have been forwarding all the updates to State Farm and everyone on prayer chains. Miricle happen everyday and Mattthew "WILL" be one of them in our lives. Know that we love you and are here for you, don't hesitate to call. cindykrou@firstbank-ok.com
I have put matthews picture on my background,so I can pray for everytime I have to set down at my computer. Please us know if you need anything. Love ya'll Ashley
I just have to say that I am so proud of Matthew for being so strong!! I pray that God keeps giving him the strength he needs to make it through this. My heart is with you all. I love you guys.
Still praying, Courtney
Matthew,
We are praying for you and the family. We also believe that God is with you, and that you will fully recover!
Love,
Drue Hamman and family
Kimberly this is Audrey,Please know that you are in my heart and prayers,whisper in Mathews ear that he better be ready for the River come summer because he already commited to going.Know that we all are thinking of him everyday,and that I have already had several dreams about him being OK! Love you all and take care. call if you need anything.
I just wanted to let the family know that all of us here at Central National Bank, in Heavener are sending our prayers out for Matthew. Courtney has prayed daily I know, and we are behind her 100%... God will work miracles, he already has. God bless you all, and God be with Matthew. (And Court, we are praying for you too...we love you!) -- LeeAnn Gardenhire
This quote gave me and my sister hope while in ICU with my father last year. "If God brings you to it, he will bring you threw it."
My sister wrote this on a piece of paper and taped it to the cabinet door in the ICU room so me and her could see it every day.
God is in control.
Jodi Campbell
For Matthew's parents and family: May the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. -Phil 4:7
For Matthew: Yet those who wait upon the Lord will gain new strength; will mount up with wings like eagles, will run and not get tired, will walk and not become weary. -Isaiah 40:31
Blessings from Marian Nowak, a friend of a friend...
Kimberly and Patton, Another Day and More Good Reports!!!. I believe everyday there will be something that you will see where there is improvement. The stronger our faith chain becomes the stronger he will become. I have always been so amazed in this area at how people are so eager to help when we have a need. God is bring so many faiths together just for Matthew, He can't but get better. Keep the faith. We are praying for you. Love and Prayers, Stacy, Dee, Britney, Ashleigh & Charles.
Early one morning, I was studying a devotional, and it has stuck with me through the trials and tribulations in my own life. It has also been something that I have shared with others as they go through their own trials. I don't remember who wrote it, but I believe it!! "Sometimes, God calms the storms that come our way in life. Other times, if we let Him, He calms us through the storms". Let Him comfort you!! Love you!!
Just wanting to let you know I am praying for Matthew and the whole family. I know it is hard to watch someone fight for their life and not be able to do anything about it. Jeffrey, you are doing an incredible job with your postings. You are explaining everything so well.
Thinking and praying for you,
Misty (Hairrell) Ward
This is Sean Howard
I want you all to know Cagle is in my prayers and thoughts. I hope he pulls through. Be strong Love you all..
Jeffrey thanks so much for your postings they really help. Matthew is a fighter and he will pull through this....
I'm not good at this , so please bare with me.chachew well thats what I've ways called him.at one time he was almost like one of mine.time gets away from us we have lives and jobs and all ways worrying about money we can make so our own families can live good. but
all that really matters is our family, and of course friends.i was with chahchew not long ago, he looked at me with those big blue eyes his mom and god blessed him with, and a smile that went to ear to ear,he said uncle my mom said that i remind her of you,not sure if thats good or bad. Kimberly lol ,but no matter my heart sunck right there, then i had a smile from ear to ear,it hits home , it hits home real bad,hes gonna be just fine, i know it. and the lord as i see it says to. he already has shown a mircial to Marleshia, Vaughn, Kimberly, Vonda Alisha Jeff Doug Linda Patton Charlotte, Garyle, Mitch, Patty and of course Jace and the prettiest girl in the world Lexy. I,m praying and i no his in the best hands, god is with him.
A very good and blessed morning to the family. Marlichia, Kimberly, sweet Lexi and the whole crew, you know God is so good, even when it doesn't look good, we walk by faith and not by sight! It doesn't matter what the circumstances appear to be, you all know that your families have been blessed time and time again. I am no longer asking questions, but rather thanking God for all He has done and is doing, be a walking testimony, you're a family of survivors, Thank you Lord for the awesome wonder and miracle of your love to us each and every day, I pray His presence surrounds you and keeps you in a way you've never felt. Be of good cheer, God is with us! Anthony,Corinna,Haley,Sam, Jan and Rick Hutchinson~
This is all such great news that you are posting Jeff and I agree, the crews that took him from the wreckage and the doctors and nurses that continue to have just as much faith as the rest of us, need a huge thank you from me!! I have known Matthew all my life and he has always been a fighter and very stubborn youngman no new news there, you all know that... Kimberly, you too have always been a very strong woman and Jace is the spitting image of Matthew and Lexi, well I havent seen here since she was knee high to a grasshopper but knowing Matthew he has loved her from the moment she was born and I'm sure he has made her out to be just like him and that is his main reason for being such a fighter he has such a wonderful and close family and hundreds of close friends that love him very much I have all faith that he will make it through just fine.... and Thanks again Jeff for keeping us all updated! With all my heart in OKC
Rayna, Hunter and Willie Noah
Kimberly & Patton, Just want you to know that I am praying for you today and our Intercessory Prayer Team will be lifting you up @ 10:00 a.m. in prayer. Don't loose faith, God is still in control. After our son Joshua lost his leg in the drilling accident, I didn't think my heart could take the pain, but I knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that God was there throughout the intire ordeal and has never left our families side. We serve a God that goes above and beyond what we could even ask or think. And just remember, there are no "Oops" with God and he knows everything that is going on before the Doctors do. Although, Doctors, Nurses, friends and family made all the difference in the world to us. They were such a part of the healing process that helped carry our family through our crisis.
The words of an old chorus that we used to sing at Nolia Church, and probably Patton played the drums to with me is
Oh there's nothing
No nothing
There is nothing that my God
can't do.
Miracles and wonders
Oh there's nothing
No nothing,
That my God can't do.
He holds all the world
in the palm of his hands
Yet He's so small
He can live in the heart of
a man
But that same mighty God
Can take a heart made of stone
Wash it and cleanse it
And call it His own.
Know that Matthew is in God's hands now and that He is in control. Believe in the Miracle, signs, and wonders.
Praying for you all,
Pastor Keith, Cathy, Aaron & Joshua
I am so proud of Matthew for being so strong!! He is a fighter and he will make it through this. Just know that my heart and prayers are with all of you and that I love you guys!
Amber Whinery
Kimberly & Family We here at state farm have been keeping up with Matthew's progress. This blogg was shared with me so I have been able to do the daily check. I do so appriciate the updates. Carl would like you to know how concerned he has been. But like you, is incouraged by the updates & the couragious battle Matthew has been fighting. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you. Carl McAdams & Staff (Tammie & Rebekah)
Hey guys, just wanted to give you a note of encouragement:
I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength.
This verse has helped me through many things, and I hope it helps you. God bless all of you.
Patton & Charoltte, if you 2 need anything just lets us know...I can put Royce to work.We love ya'll!!
Royce,Rachel,Kadie and Blain
I am so glad that Mathew is doing better our prayers must be helping so everybody keep up the good work in praying for Mathew.Love to you and yours Kimbely. Audrey
To all the family of Matthew, We are so sorry this happened. All of you are in our prayers & we know God is listening to our cries for Matthew's healing. Seeing the report today shows he is listening. Remember, (All things are possible throught Jesus Christ our Lord who strengthens us.) He will give each & ever one of you the strength you need. We have people all over the country praying for Matthew's recovery. Love Ken & Kathy Clagg
We hope Matthew gets better and our prayers are with you.
From Blake Clagg and Tammy Freeman
Just wanted you all to know that you're in our prayers, and that we love you. We know that Matthew is srong and is going to pull through this. Remind him that he comes from a big family who loves him..
We really appreciate the updates..
We love you guys and we will keep praying,
Wayla,Terry,John Wesley,
& Jesse James Ables
Kimberly & Family
I am so glad to hear that he is doing better. Me and my family are praying for matthew everyday. if you need anything you know you can always call me.
Love Always
Susan & Tessa
I would just like to say that I'm so happy that Matthew is doing better each and every day. This is a maricle in progress. God is wonderful! Keep praying and more progress is sure to come. Matthew: You have many people rooting for you as you travel this long road to recovery. Keep fighting and hold steady, this is a rough road to travel but we will hold your hand and help you keep your balance as long as you need someone to lean on. You are a precious person and a wonderful young man, keep up the fight!
Wow! What an incredible update! We are so glad to hear the great news. God is performing a miracle right before our eyes. We will continue to pray, and we have people from many different towns and states praying for Matthew. I saw Jace this morning, and he was very optomistic about Matthews recovery, and he looked to be holding up well, so our prayers for the family seem to be working as well. May God comfort you through the rest of this journey. God Bless and be strong.
Erin & Jesse Whitlock
Dear Matthew,
I want to say a prayer for you right now.
Dear God, please make him stonger, each and everyday, please let him come out of this and be the same old loving,caring,and cute Matthew, that he's always has been.Please walk hand and hand, side by side,with Kimberly,Jace, and Peyton. They all four need you by there side.Thank you lord, for being the great lord that you.Amen.
Matthew,,, I know you can overcome this, as well as you do.God made you strong and hardheaded for a reason.Just be the strong,brave, Matthew that I've always known.
You and I have been Best Friends going on 7 or 8 years now,and I know that there will be 40 more years to come of us having the best friendship we've always had.I'm taking this very well.My heart is hurting because my Best Friend is hurting and theres nothing that I can do other then pray.MATTHEW, I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART,always have,always will.
Kimberly,Jace,and Peyton,
please remember that God is there with you in every way.You three keep your head up, and know that our God will bring him back to us.
Kimberly,after he's well,gets to come home,may I come over and see him and tell him i love him?please.
YA'LL ARE IN MY HEART,HOPES,AND PRAYERS.
One of your True BestFriends
Auboneigh Cranford
We are praying for Matthew and all of you daily. The Smallwoods
As I was reading todays updates, all I could do is smile!! I believe that God's favor is definitely smiling on Matthew!!
Love and Prayers, Courtney
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the Family.
The Diltz/Kirk Family
Kimberly,
I want you to know that my family is and will continue to pray for Matthew. I know everyting will be fine, please keep us all posted.
We all send our love!
Thank you so much for the updates on Matthews condition. Everything is starting to look great! Of course he comes from 2 strong families. May God bless and comfort you during this time. We will keep Matthew and family in prayer.
Wayne and Martina Hawkins
Keep hanging in there, Matthew, and the family of Matthew.....he's come a long way today, shows he is fighting and prayers are surrounding him. Keep prayers going everyone and let's watch God work a miracle.
Becky
Kimberly and family
You are constantly on my mind. It's so encouraging to hear how Matthew is fighting. I pray that God will continue to give you strength and continue to heal. We know that he can. We love you all so much.
Jo Anne
Kimberly and Family,
I just wanted you to know Matthew is in our prayers. It is good to read about his progress. I pray Matthew continues to heal and make great progress. If we can help in any way please let us know.
Clint, Jamie and Joshua Bullock
Kimberly, just wanted to let you know that we are praying for you and Matthew's speedy recovery. Just keep trusting God and He will see you through as he has so many times before.
Rhonda Bradshaw and Family
I'm praying for all of you! I'm so happy that matthew is doing better! I love you guys so much!
-Jaascie Scarberry
Kimberly so glad to see that Matthew is continuing to do better. You guys have been in my thoughts and prayers! Would have written sooner, but only found out about this page today. Always remember God is faithful!!
Luv ya,
Jo Ann Scarberry
We just want you to know that Matthew is and has been in prayers everyday. Patton an Charlotte we want you to also know if there is anything we can do please let us know we are keeping you and Matthew's family in are prayers we love you ,The Patterson Family, Chris, Judy, Shelby Tamisha ,Hailey, and Tristan ,,
Another Day and God is still showing us His work in Matthew's Life. I told you the first day I talked with you on the phone that every day I was expecting Good reports, a better report than the day before.
It just blesses me every day when I get on here I see so some many more new comments. It really Blesses my heart knowing that every day the army of God keeps GROWING and GROWING.
I just want to pray for you
all "Father in Heaven and in our Hearts, We praise you for what you've already done in Matthew's Life. Everyday we see your glory manifesting right there in the hospital. We not only Thank You for what you've done, but for what you are doing right now, tonight and for what you are going to do tomarrow and in the days ahead. We know you are not finished until your glory can be fully lifted up. We just stop right now and say Thanks. Father, I ask that you fill that room and the waiting room with your peace, be with this family, and keep sending workers in your kingdom online to encourage them. In Jesus' loving name, Amen."
Be encouraged tonight and know that Jesus is on our side and He is ever interceeding to the Father for His children. There is an old chorus that we use to sing and here are the words,
"I anticipate,the inevitible,the supernatural,intervention of God, I expect a miracle, I expect a miracle, I expect a miracle." It's already in the making just hold on to it.
Love and Prayers, Stacy, Dee, Britney, Ashleigh & Charles Fuller
OH it is so good to hear that Matthew is doing better. My thoughts and prayers are with you all if you need anything and I mean anything just let me know....Kimberly if you need help with Lexie just give me a ring she can play with Peyton Jace has my number......Love yall all
This is Joseph, Boober's son. I was just wanting to let you know that Matthew is in my thoughts, and we're pulling for him here at USAO. Keep strong!
Dear Matthew and Family,
We were so thrilled to hear that things are getting better for Matthew, and that each day improvement is happening. We have wept and rejoiced along with you. We will continue to pray for Matthew, Thank you for the updates, God's almighty hands are holding fast to your dear sweet son.
John 14:
Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled, and do not let them be afraid.
Peace, what a mighty word, just as the Lord that has given us this promise.
Our heart and prayers are with you on this journey.
Chad Fewell and Family......
Kimberly this is Charles from Wellston Fire Departement the personell on scene that day were:
WELLSTON FIRE DEPARTMENT
CHARLES DANKER
RICHARD DAVIS
TERRY DAVIS
WELLSTON EMS
MIRANDA
TESSIE HOUSER
To the Cagle family
This is Charles Danker with the Wellston Volunteer Fire Departement our prayers are with yout family and Matthew everyday. We constantly try as much as possible to check up on him at least every other day. If there is anything that we the fire department can do to help you through this rough time just let me know and we will try to help as much as we possibly can. Keep us posted on his condition cause when he gets well I want the fireman and ems that were there that day to meet this wonderful young man. Until then saty strong and we will keep you in our minds and prayers everyday.
THIS MESSAGE IS FROM WELLSTON FIRE DEPARTMENT AND EMERGENCY MEDICAL SERVICES OF WELLSTON OKLAHOMA
May the Lord be with you and your family Matthew through this rough time, your such a strong person and we all know that your going to make it through this, we all love and miss you so much, "Fear not, for I am with you; Be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, Yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand." Isaiah 41:10.
Im praying for you everyday and I know that God is going to heal you and bring you through this.....I love all of you very much,
Autumn Kirkes
this is brandii i just wanted to let you know that i have been praying for matthew everyday and i hope he gets better the last time i saw him was the night before they wrecked and he was playing with jairumiah and laughing and jokin around...just being matthew! jairumiah loved it he was a bit leery to begin with but in the end he loved matthew and didn't want to let him go! i just thought i would share that with yall because it was so cute! you are still in my prayers everyday and were all thinking of you too!
Brandii & Jairumiah
I am so glad to hear that he had a good night. I know that by the end of the day we will be hearing of more good reports. God is with you, draw from his strength today.
James 4:8 "Draw near to GOd and He WILL draw near to you..."
Love and Prayers,
Stacy, Dee Fuller & Kids
You family is in our thought today and we are continuing to pray for Matthew and also Kimberly, Patton, & the entire family. Still believing for God to perform a miracle.
A special thanks to Jeff for keepin everyone updated on Matthew's progress. This helps us to know how we should pray. Love you guys!
Pastor Keith, Cathy, Aaron & Joshua
I know words can't describe what ya'll are going through, but I know for sure with Faith in God he will be there no matter what.
Love ya'll Ashley
Brother,
I love you.
Jacobi
Thank you very much for your condolences, we sincerely appreciate them. We are paying for you everyday and miss you very much. We will try to come see you as soon as possible. Kirstin says she loves you Uncle Matthew.
All our love.
Lacy, J.J., Kirstin, Blake, and Becky
I am Carolyn Hirby from Little Rock, AR. Robyn Smith is our daughter and we are Mammie and Pops to Leslie and Mary. We hope to be able to meet your family on our next visit to Edmond. We are thankful for the sweet, Christian relationship between Leslie and Ryan...she is a special young lady with a beautiful witness, and he is an answer to our prayers at this time in her life. May God continue to bless them as they grow in Him, and all their memories together be sweet.
I promise you our prayers for Matthew and to the family that lost their loved one on April 14.
I would love to share something that has brought me through many a storm in the recent years. Some time back, we were in a really bad thunder storm. I happened to be home alone that night - and the sound of the thunder not only shook our windows - but I shook as well. We live on a high hill, and it was pitch black outside until the lightening started flashing and then it looked like noon-day for miles around. I suppose one reason I was so afraid was being alone, and the other was because I had just received a phone call that crushed me with news of a newborn baby in our famly that would obviously suffer permanently from a condition that we knew very little about. I happened to notice my GRACE FOR THE MOMENT devotion book on a nearby table and I opened it to June 5 - and I would love to share the words that were waiting for me - just when I needed them the most. God knew the news I would hear that night - and He knew just what I needed -BUT WHY A STORM! I quickly discovered why I was listening to the thunder!
In that devotion - God shared with me that I am to look to the canyons to see His spendor - touch the flowers to see His delcacy - and LISTEN TO THE THUNDER TO HEAR HIS POWER!
You are most likely in the greatest storm of your lives - and crashing thunder is sometimes hard to hear, but listen closely - IN EVERY STORM - HE IS THERE - AND HIS POWER IS WITH US ALWAYS.
I don't like storms - no one does, but since I read that devotion - some of my best sleep has come in the middle of the night, in the middle of a heavy storm. There is no better rest than in His arms and in His promises. I pray peace for each of you as you wait on His Power - and ultimately Matthew's healing.
I look forward to the day when Leslie or Robyn call to say that Matthew is awake, talking, and all will be well.
Love to you all - Carolyn
Hey Matthew Douglas. I turned 19 yesterday! =) And guess what my birthday wish was? It was for you to wake up and be okay. Your mom called me yesterday and told me they took you off of the pentobarbital, because you were doing so good they wanted to bring out out of a coma. After I got off the phone with her I sat and cried and thanked the good lord for keeping his hands on you! I love you Matthew, even though your a punk and always pick on me and rough me up, just because your older than me! But your always there for me through everything, and I know that your very strong and you will pull through this! I know there is someone above making sure of that! I love you very much!
-Cousin Kristen
Hi Kimberly:
This is Susan(Webster)Hughes. I just received your email a few days ago and I was so sorry to hear about the accident. Matthew sounds like a fighter, and with all the prayers going out, he can't help but pull through this. The power of prayer is an awesome thing! I just wanted you to know that my family is praying for Matthew and you and your family. Be strong and if there is anything I can do, please let me know. Tell your mother and dad hello for me and the rest of your family. I will be thinking of you.
Love,
Larry,Susan,Brady,and Cory
My name is Tessie and I was one of the emts from Wellston Ambulance. I just wanted to let you know that from the moment we began to treat Matthew until now I have been praying for him. I am a pastor's wife from a small Baptist church in the area, and I will watch for updates so I can know how to pray. I just wanted you to know that God had someone by Matthew's side praying for him from the moment it all started
It is so amazing to see God at work like this, every time something starts to go wrong, i know i dig in my heels and pray even harder and i know everyone else does too, and then within a few hours his levels start coming down. i have never seen spiritual warfare like this before. it is awe inspiring, and makes me even more faithful in God's mighty word,i pray for angels to keep surrounding matthew and his family.
To Tessie (EMT),
Thank you for letting our family know that you began praying for Matthew immediately on the scene. It was a powerful and comforting truth to hear that a faithful servant of God was interceding for him from the very beginning. Thanks for sharing this and your continued prayers. God calls us to encourage one another in faith, and you, along with so many others, have done that. My prayer is for you and others like you to be encouraged in your service to Him.
Matthew's Aunt Vonda
Kimberly,
I am so proud of you for standing on your faith in God through this. In Secrets of the Vine devotional it says, "Great faith, which releases amazing works of God, always begins with a few rock-solid facts: God is in control. God is good. And God will never stop working for our good, even when we don't recognize what He's doing."
Isaiah 26:3-4 says, "You, Lord, give true peace to those who depend on you, because they trust you. So, trust the Lord always, because he is our Rock forever."
I love you!
Sis V
Matthew and family, I had been praying alot for things to be well and I think that Matthews fought hard till now, that everyone's prayers are helping and are comming all together to God with their help and prayers. And the blog is nice, thank you for that it is much helpful...and I hope all is well take care ya'll guys.
Misty
Jeffrey,
I am sure I speak for everyone who has read this blog site. You have done a FANTASTIC job putting this together. I feel like we are right there, in our hearts, with Matthew, and the family. Our prayers are constantly with you all and we have a clearer understanding of what is happening because of you using your talents with this wonderful and caring blog site to keep us informed on Matthew. Thank you.
Becky & Bill
Sorry I have been so long getting to this site. The updates are great, Jeffrey. Thank you for keeping everyone updated. Please know that you are ALL in our prayers and not a day goes by that we don't think of you and what you are going through! My time on the computer is limited because of Jury Duty right now, but now that I have pulled up the site, I will keep it handy. Mike, Mishael and I love you all and will continue to pray. Just remember that God is still in the MIRACLE busiess and hold tight to your ANCHOR! Love, Pat Metheny
Dear Mathew and Family,
Just wanted you to know that your family from California/Nevada are thinking about you all and you are in our prayers!
Love Sarah Jane Kirk-Sabatini
Charlotte and Pat
We are still here for yall and prayers are srill with you and Mathew and the rest of the family. If you need anything else, don't hesitate to let us know.
TO THE CAGLE FAMILY. THIS IS CHARLES DANKER AND I WOULD LIKE TO SAY THANK YOU FOR KEEPING US UPDATED 24/7 AROUND THE CLOCK ON MATTHEWS CONDITION. YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN MINE AND MY FAMILIES PRAYERS THROUGH THIS DIFFICULT TIME. MATTHEW IS A FIGHTER AND I KNOW WITH GOD MATTHEW WILL WIN THIS BATTLE. WE WILL KEEP YOU IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. THIS MESSAGE IS FROM THE DANKER FAMILY OF WELLSTON OKLAHOMA.
Hello to all. Just a note to let you know that we're still praying and believing that God is working a miracle. Just the fact that Matthew is still with us is such proof that God is in control and is working through Him. Please let us know if there is anything that you need.
May God continue to bless you and give you strength.
Donnie, Lynn, Beth, Emily, Elaina, Zach and KenDell McCarn and Shirley Burkhart
To the family of Matthew and Matthew.
It is good to hear that Matthew is getting better, he is going through quite an ordeal. With a loving family, and so many people praying for you, you are going to get better.
We are praying for you everyday, morning, noon, and even when we bless our food. God hears everyone and is rooting for Matthew as well.
God Is Our Hope
God is our hope and strength,
a very present help in trouble.
Therefore will we not fear, though the earth be moved,
and though the hills be carried into the midst of the sea;
Though the waters thereof rage and swell,
and though the mountains shake at the tempest of the same.
There is a river, the streams whereof make glad the city of God,
the holy place of the tabernacle of the Most High.
--- Psalms 46: 1-4
All our prayers
The Fewell Family
Matthew I have not seen you since I moved from Clayton. I always thought alot of you, so did my daughters. When we heard we started praying for you. We know gods love is bigger than anything and he will bring your life back full circle. We will pray for you and your family daily. I know how hard head and stubborn you ar so keep up the fight ya lil stinker. forever your friend
Brandy Efaw (Deupree),Shelbi, and Charli
Keep Fighting and Hang In there!
Love , Jacobi
Hang in there Matthew you have come such a long way already! Love you guys and keep your faith Matthew is strong I have all faith he will make it through. Kimerly, let me know if you need anything night or day... Love you all....
Rayna, Hunter and Willie
Kimberly,
Stay strong in your faith! It looks like it is working! My family is praying for you and yours. Matthew is a special person. Thanks for all of the updates, Jeff.
Dea Smith
hey brother. just wanted ya to know i was thinking about ya. i love ya man.
jacobi
hey just wanted to let u know we are all praying for u all , let us know if u need anything at all . we love & God Bless U alll
There is a chorus we sing, "My God is an awesome God." He is that and more.He has His mighty hand upon the Matthew Cagle Family.
This is a great Blog and it is good to read how Matthew is doing each day.
We looked at the pictures and Matthew is a nice looking young man. Everything about him spells winner and he is a winner through Jesus.
Ya'll are in our prayers daily,
Fresh Beginnings Church-Finley, O.K
Pastors Sonny & Joyce Luman
Chatchew Douglas, you have always been very precious to your Uncle Garyle and me, from the first time we seen that beautiful baby boy to the awesome young man you have turned out to be. The Good Lord has wrapped his arms around you and is giving us the mircale, everyone has been praying for. You are in our thoughts when we lay down at night, and you are the first thing we pray for when we wake up. We cant wait to see that beautiful smile that lights up a room. We love you very much.
Uncle Garyle and Aunt Kelli
just wanted you to know that you are in my prayers.
love,
joni and kyle
Just wanted Matthew and family to know we think about you every day!
May God be with all of you through this trying time.
Janice & Bruce Webster
Hey! I am so glad to here that matthew is doing so well, he is so strong and tuff. God has a plan for him, Tell all we said Hi. love ya'll very much. God bless!
Richard,Ashley,Amber,Lane Holt!
Shawna found this devotional with the page turned down last week during all of Matthew's ups and downs. This passage is what I keep praying in my mind. The word that I find most comforting is RESTORATION. I believe that Matthew will be restored.
Comfort in Affliction
O My people, has not My hand fashioned for you many signs and wonders? Have I not ministered to you in miraculous ways? How is it you say therefore in your eart, "I will turn again to human strength"? How often have I spoken to you, and never failed to keep My word? Will you not, then, trust Me now in this new emergency, even as you have trusted Me in the past?
Your need is greater this time, and so I have made the testing more acute. I strengthen you in the furnace of affliction, and purify your soul in the fires of pain.
Lean hard upon Me, for I bring you through to new victories, and restoration shall follow what seems now to be a wind of destruction.
Hold fast to My hand, and rest in My love, for of this you may be very certain: My love is unaltered; yes, I have you in My own intensive care. My concern for you is deeper now than when things are normal.
Draw upon the resources of My grace, and so shall you be equipped to communicate peace and confidence to your dear ones. Heaven rejoices when you go through trials with a singing spirit. Your Father's heart is cheered when you endure the test and do not question His mercy.
Be like a beacon light. His own glorious radiance shall shine through you, and Christ Himself will be revealed.
(Come Away My Beloved by Frances J. Roberts)
just read your update, i check on you several times aday. our prayes continue for you and your family!!
love Brandy, and girls
just wanted you to know we are praying for all of you. Keep the faith! Matthew is a fighter.
Brent, Barb, Paden, Chantri Harper
Matthew, keep on healing. Get Stronger. God's almighty hands and love is upon you. The angels above are rejoicing each time you make progress.
God is our hope and promise. He is in control and He does perform miracles. We are part of His family and He does love us.
Note from Jesus…
I will keep you in perfect peace.
Your mind is stayed on Me,
because you trust in Me.
Trust in Me forever;
for in Me is everlasting strength.
He is Near…
The word of God is very near – in my mouth and in my heart when I meditate on the Bible. Anyone who seeks God with his deepest heart and all his soul will truly find Him.
Wait on the Lord:
Be of good courage,
And He shall strengthen thine heart.
(Psalm 27:14)
He is There.
Thank You for the update on Matthew.
We are with you all in prayer and love.
The Chad Fewell Family
Kimberely,
We're all so happy to hear that Matthew is making such wonderful progress. He is a fighter indeed! If there should be anything that we can do, do not hesitate to ask! Your dad was kind enough to help my parents out when my dad had surgery, and we are more than willing to lend a helping hand. That's what friends and neighbors do. In the meantime, we will we saying our prayers and keeping faith in Matthew's full recovery. Love you guys, Lorrie Jo Conley and Family
Kimberly, Patton, & all the Matthew Cagle Family,
Still praying for Matthew and believing God for that Miracle. Matthew, as soon as you get well, I will have to fill you in on all the crazy things your Dad, Keith & I did at Nolia, when we played in the band together. Patton definately kept me prayed through. And by the way....I am the reason he is so good on those drums. NOT!!!
On a serious note, your family means the world to the two of us and our prayers will continue to be with you all until we see the miracle from our prayers.
Believing with you!
Pastor Keith Williams, Cathy, Aaron & Josh
We are truly blessed with such caring family and friends.
Our God IS an amazing God!
Matthew,
I am continuing to pray without ceasing for you. I miss being able to go down to your room and sit with you and see with my own eyes how you are. But I'm trusting that the Lord is continuing to hold you in His arms.
You are precious to me. I look forward to the day you wake up and see how blessed you are by all the love that surrounds you. The kids are anxiously waiting to come see you. We love you, oh so much!
Aunt Alichia
May God lay his hands upon Matthew, and rid his body of all infection. We plead the Blood of Jesus Christ to aid him in his healing.
We are trying to keep up with all the news about him that we can. Prayer is going strong throughout all our members at the Fresh Beginnings Church. If you need anything please do not hesitate to call upon us.
Christ is our greatest physician, and through him we have faith in Matthew's healing.
God Bless you all. And God's hand upon all of you during this time.
The Chad Fewell Family.
I went to the pie supper last night and it seemed to be doing really well. I can't explain how good it felt to participate in something that was for such a good cause. Glad to hear that Matthew is making progress. It does not surprise me to hear that he is such a fighter. To Marlichia, Jace, Matthew & Kimberly: You all are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. To Jeff: you have no idea how much this site is appreciated. You are doing an excellent job of keeping a large number of concerned people informed daily.
Amy Jones and family.
Matthew and all his family
I keep a check on you daily with your Aunt Kelli, my thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
love and prayers
Beth Ann Scarberry-Martin
Hi we are praying for Matthew. Our Church will be told of his condition. We lost our son in an accident when he was 18 and I pray so hard for Matthew. And for your family. Hang in there. Janet
Kimberly, the reports are sounding very good on Matthew. We continue to pray for him and your entire family.
I know you must be exhausted. Keep your chin up. We are faced daily with trials and tribulations but we will, with the help of God, come through.
Wish there was more I could do for you, hopefully these words of encouragement will help, that is what friends are for.
Kay Russell
To the Cagle family,
This is Tessie from Wellston EMS. It's Sunday and I have been faithfully reading Matthew's blog. I want you to know that I continue to pray and encourage my church family to pray for Matthew's recovery. I am constantly amazed at the greatness of our God and His faithfulness. Maybe someday we can all meet on this side of heaven and rejoice in Matthew's life. Perhaps I can come up to the hospital sometime when I'm not working.
Praise the Lord! I am so gald to here Matthew is doing so well, Jeffery you have done a great job I have printed the daily reports so Aunt Thelma could to read them, she is wanted me to tell everyone she is praying and she loves you all. Kimberly call if you need anything.
Love Ashley
God Bless
I am so glad to hear that Mathew is doing so well,we'll keep on praying and hope that he has nothing but improvements from this day forward. Kimberly,Jace,Lexie and Family you are constantly in our hearts and prayers stay strong. Love Audrey & The Cruz Family
Hello all... Please post all new comments on the new post titled "Update on Matthew - Week 3". It is located at the top of the blog page and is dated Monday, April 28th.
Thanks! Jeff
Kimberly, Patton & Wife, Jace,and Lexi. Marlichia Vaughn and all the family. We are praying for you daily and know it will be such a blessing to see Matthew open his eyes and see your smiling faces. God has a plan and all things work together for the good to those who love the Lord Our God. Thanks Jeff for keeping us informed. Love to all. Troyce and Doyle
still reading your updates, and still praying for you and your family. looks like your a fighter like we all knew you are. god still has big plans for you my friend, he changed my life in such a miraculous way. you probably wouldn't even know me anymore. i do know know that you are so loved i have read everyones comments, and you got to know when you read all these. wow your special, and your family is as well. you keep fighting. Matthews family hang in there gods love will see you through.
love Brandy, Shelbi, and Charli
Matthew is doing really well. He is fighting hard. Let's help him by all praying harder than ever this week for a miracle to happen in his life, for extra strength for the family, for comfort and peace to surround them all. May the Dr.'s feel a change that is only from a miracle happening. I believe God can do miracles and I believe God can bring Matthew through this ordeal with renewed strength and renewed faith and renewed zest for life. I pray that he will wake up and have a real purpose in his life having gone through all he has gone through. Let's all keep praying hard for a miracle! Matthew needs us to pray him out of this coma with feelings of love and caring and continued encouragement.
Becky
matthew,
you are still in our prayers, i hope that you get to come home very soon. lots of love,
joni and kyle ''
I'm so glad that Matthew is doing so good! =) You all are still in m prayers! I love you Kimberly! You are so strong through all of this and I'm very proud of you! =) Your a person that I could look up to! Keep being strong! I love all of you!
Love,
Jaascie
Giving up on Matthew, Never!
Matthew is one of God's creation and it is our choice and privelege to praise his mighty name.It is our choice to believe that God is not finished with Mattew. We will continue to pray for him, and it may not happen today, but with God's gracious love and healing, there is Hope... you have heard and probably sang the song About God may not come when you want him , but he his always on time.
This is also true for Matthew. I pray that God keeps him safe and holds him dear and close.
We will pray for that miracle.
Cagle family, you are loved. And thought about daily in our prayers.
We are not giving up.
We live and breathe in faith of our Lord Jesus to heal your son.
If we can help, please let us know.
The Chad Fewell Family....
One of my co-workers son was in a car wreck in June of 92 and the doctors told her that he would not make it and if he did he wouldn't be able to walk or talk again. After 45 days in the hospital he showed no response. She admitted him into a rehabilitation center and believe it or not that september he said his first word. He had a full recovery and is now back to normal. Don't let the doctors discourage you. You guys are doing so great keep the faith! She also wanted me to tell you that she went to the Head Trauma Support Group Meetings and they helped her alot.I love all of you and hope that this gives you some encouragement!
Kristen (Battles) Johnson
Sweet Kimberly and All...
God is amazing and works miricals that cannot be explained!
When the Ryan and Natalie were born at 27 weeks they had extream bleeding in the brain and all kinds of issues. The Dr.s said they more than likely wouldn't live or be severly mentally and physically challenged.
I tell you this because look at them today! Through prayer and prayer and prayer...look at them today! Please don't let the Dr's news discourage you. I left it in God's hands and He took care of the rest. And what ever He chooses for sweet Matthew, know that he has brought all together to pray and be close to you and family.
We love you dearly and we pray for you all everyday!!!
love,
Polly
we are very excited to see the progress that matthew is making and we know God will bring him and your family through this! we are praying for you and will put you on our prayer list at church. this is donnie and all the boys at clagg and sons.
Dear Family and yes Praise God in all His Glory "Matthew"
It has been awhile since we last were able to check your blog, but have heard from others about his progress.
It was awesome to read and see Matthew's progress as the tears of joy flowed from my eyes. I had to read it again, just to make sure we didn't miss a thing.
We have kept Matthew in our prayer request at Fresh Beginnings Church. There is nothing that God can't do, and we know that Matthew will be a testimony for all to hear.
It is good to also hear that Kimberly's spirit has not faltered but grown in faith. As Matthew's healing progresses. Awesome indeed is our Master's love and healing touch.
I would like to leave a poem I found, it is called "Precious Gift's"
Matthew is indeed a gift and his life will and has touched others with his courage, and healing.
Precious Gifts
Author Unknown
Yesterday a butterfly
Came floating gently through the sky.
He soared up through the atmosphere
Then drifted close enough to hear.
I said, "I'd love to fly with you
And sail around the way you do.
It looks like it would be such fun
To fly up toward the summer sun.
But I have not your graceful charm.
I haven't wings, just these two arms.
I've been designed to walk around.
My human feet must touch the ground.
Then magically he spoke to me
and told me what his wish would be.
He said, "What I'd love most to do
Is walk upon God's Earth with you,
To squish its mud between my toes
Or touch my finger to my nose.
I'd love just once to walk around
With human feet to touch the ground,
But I have not two legs that swing,
I haven't arms, just these two wings."
And so we went our separate ways
In wonder and surprise.
For we'd both seen God's precious gifts
Through someone else's eyes.
May God keep you in His Loving Arms and we will keep the prayers going. Thank you so very much with all the news.
The Fewell Family
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